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塞外风雪 · 发表于 2005-4-21 09:33:35

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背景介绍：
Karen和Joy是读硕士时极为要好的朋友。毕业后Joy和男友双双成功申请到了美国大学的全奖并赴美读书。而Karen却没打算再读书而是在非典影响下找了一份并不理想的工作，工作半年后迫于家庭压力准备报考国内的博士，而Joy很希望Karen也申请到美国与她在一起，毕竟她们那么要好。而Karen也有了这个念头,但博士考试又在即。
她们基本每天都要在网上聊一会，尽管时差有12-13小时之多。
现摘录Karen4。3晚写的一点，是英文的。因为全为即兴发挥，不妥之处见谅！

塞外风雪 · 发表于 2005-4-21 09:34:11

(2004-04-03 22:50:48) Karen
hi,dear
how＇s today?
I do not want to study sigh!
I hope to be with u in USA although not so confident with it
and do not know the future of my career
the exam is coming, I really hope some miracles could happen
oh, if life could just be as what I hope

(2004-04-03 22:56:05)　 Karen
I have been eating tooooooooo much for a long time la
sigh
and no up-and-down sports either
i am getting fatter
and your wedding is coming
what should i do
again i am turning back into that kind of condition of food addiction when under pressure, like in that period (u won’t forget, will u?)
what the hell is that
who can help me out

(2004-04-03 23:01:00)　Karen
I wanna give up on phd exam again
but even to say it out to myself, I feel it impossible
how can i do it again
hurt my dad again
cheat others again
disgrace myself again
alas, everything sucks
the weather sucks (although I did not go out for a whole day, I can still feel the weather bad)
the food sucks
the brain sucks
the study sucksoh, sorry, speaking not like a nice lady

(2004-04-03 23:09:22)　 Karen
my department organized an activity to some mountain around this weekend
I did not go and the reason is "I have no time for exam preparation!!!"
while,the whole day I spent without any study, but sleep, watch tv, surf on internet and daydream
and now, at the end of the day, regretting, still an action of wasting time

塞外风雪 · 发表于 2005-4-21 09:34:41

2004-04-03 23:16:17)　Karen
I just cannot turn back to the state of hard working, which is for long highly praised by others on me
I almost begin to doubt about whether I am under the Taurus Star
as it is said people under taurus star should be a diligent person, persistent on the way for his or her goals
oh, yeah, i remember some said people under this star is also very lazy man, look, that is called self-contradiction

(2004-04-03 23:23:59)　Karen
hey, what on earth are u doing and where?
shopping? if i can decide my time, half will be given to shopping, although I always pretend to be a special woman, who should not be that feminine, say, shopping addict, one usual character describing lady, no matter how old or young she is

(2004-04-03 23:31:50)　 Karen
the other half should be given to my career, brilliant cause building, after all I have to be more or less positively different with those ordinary women and those special on looks
or I will not have my market
what market I am saying?
give me an answer

塞外风雪 · 发表于 2005-4-21 09:35:38

2004-04-03 23:36:35)　 Karen
men market? oh, disgusting
hehe
a trap
not only market of men, but all the people around me included,
I wanna being excellent in the eyes of others whose words I care about
so u know, those wanna be special tends to be sensitive, prying and unhappy
do not say FT to the above, or I will FT

(2004-04-03 23:43:22)　 Karen
oh, another idea or, if I dare to say, a theory knocked my brain suddenly
still remember the three basic competitive methods generally used in business, developed by Michael Porter?
give u 2 seconds to consider
(do not forget the pressure from the degree you have got, when you are thinking)

(2004-04-03 23:54:13)　Karen
balabala
that is: cost-leadership, differentiation and concentration
it can also be used in BF,GF or Wife,Husband selection practiced almost in every society
when a girl wanna find someone called Mrright or a man wanna find his right one, three ways to go

(2004-04-04 00:01:11)　 Karen
Number one: to find someone who can provide money, house, position, job, status or so to u, thus saving your cost for getting them
　Or, to find someone who is loyal, easy to be with, or family-oriented , thus saving your time and mind on love and family, and having more energy to put to your career for getting those material things
both of the above are called cost-leadership consideration type

(2004-04-04 00:12:31)　 Karen
Number two: find someone different with other choices, the differences are normally expressed by looks, figures, competences, characters, interests, behaviors, educations, cooking abilities, degrees(I know u will force me to put it in, no problem)and too much to make it completed
this type is defined as differentiation consideration type

(2004-04-04 00:21:33)　 Karen
the last one: concentration type
normally happened on those who turned their relationship from friends, colleagues, classmates and so on into a higher class of relationship---lovers
they do not need to adore some points of the other one before this relationship transformation, what is required is only being together for long without any disturbs from outside

(2004-04-04 00:34:45)　 Karen
think about the cases of LOVE FROM YOUTH (qing1 mei2 zhu2 ma3)
one is concentrated on by the other, before he or she begins to think about love feeling, which normally happens with age increase
thus this newly-borned feeling is naturally put on the concentrating one, first-to-be-thought one
so, this is the third type-------concentration consideration one

(2004-04-04 00:47:24)　 Karen
oh, godI am so talktive today
any remark?
whatever, just a mind sparkle, arising suddenly
maybe I should devote myself into this research, read some phd in this field, or be a free academician, establishing a totally new theory for our nation, our world, and our human being Nwhile, still it is immature, needing more to be perfect or at least not bad, in consideration of critics existence

(2004-04-04 00:57:50)　Karen
all right, eyes tired?
whatever, my fingers tired
toooooo late, have to hit the bed,
after all,"thinkers need sleep"
by the way, is this another excuse for me not to take the silly coming exam? if a new phd candidate was born, the world will lose a greater thinker!!!!!!!
do not say FT again, though I am FTing

(2004-04-04 01:01:24)　 Karen
good night
see u around
(I hate to say normal words for hoping to be attractive to differentiation consideration type persons, but I could not find some unique words at this moment and you have known me for long, so no much need la)

rosean · 发表于 2005-4-21 10:48:38

太长了吧

Bstar · 发表于 2005-4-24 03:41:59

而且是e文

塞外风雪 · 发表于 2005-4-24 04:50:22

呵呵，在一个考研的论坛上找到的

Eternity · 发表于 2005-4-24 06:36:59

支持呀。
So interesting!

rosean · 发表于 2005-5-4 11:24:31

楼主的照片什么时候又变成女生的了？
是不是人也变成女生了啊？

承风 · 发表于 2005-5-4 11:52:38

怎么看不懂说的是什么哦?>

rosean · 发表于 2005-5-5 04:51:10

想看懂？
那再去好好学习吧！
哪有像你那么小的就开始玩了
怎么不像你哥哥姐姐学习呢！

承风 · 发表于 2005-5-5 08:40:17

说的对楼上的

dudu · 发表于 2005-5-5 10:33:31

很受启发啊,特别是"cost-leadership, differentiation and concentrationit can also be used in BF,GF or Wife,Husband selection practiced almost in every society
when a girl wanna find someone called Mrright or a man wanna find his right one, three ways to go"
很浓缩啊